What to do with a baby squirrel

The wind in Chicago in April is basically a personal insult. I was already standing in the kitchen watching my toddler have a full-scale meltdown because his morning banana had the audacity to break in half. I was mentally calculating how many hours until naptime when I looked out the patio door. There, resting on the cold concrete next to a tipped-over planter, was a tiny, writhing, hairless alien. It looked like a pink thumb that had somehow learned to breathe.

My nursing instincts usually kick in when a human child is bleeding or feverish. I've seen a thousand of those cases. But staring at this displaced yard creature, my brain just completely flatlined. I had a screaming toddler on my left leg and what looked like a dying rodent on my patio. It was Tuesday, and the week was already over.

The viral wildlife lie we all bought into

Listen, if you spend enough time online, you've seen those videos. The ones where some hipster in a flannel shirt rescues a highly talented infant squirrel, and suddenly the thing is wearing tiny hats and balancing on a custom skateboard. The internet loves to push this narrative that a young rescued squirrel is naturally good at everything, from forming deep emotional bonds with golden retrievers to eating miniature pancakes at a dollhouse table.

It's all a massive, dangerous illusion, yaar. When a wild juvenile approaches you or climbs up your leg looking for help, it isn't an act of friendship. It isn't trying to audition for your family band. According to the wildlife rehabber I eventually got on the phone, that behavior is a sign of end-stage desperation. The animal is starving to death. Its blood sugar has crashed so low that it has entirely lost its natural fear of predators, which includes you and your loud children.

Social media completely ruins our perception of nature. We think we're Disney princesses when we find an animal, but the reality is much closer to a trauma bay intake. You aren't making a friend. You're holding a fragile, terrified creature that probably has parasites, and your only job is to keep it from dying of shock before a professional can take over.

Assessing the tiny patient on your lawn

I put the screaming toddler in his high chair with a handful of dry cereal and grabbed my thick gardening gloves. My doctor casually mentioned once during a routine checkup that wild mammals carry all sorts of things. Maybe rabies, maybe strange bacterial infections, I don't really know the specifics, but I wasn't going to find out by touching it with my bare hands.

You have to figure out how old the thing is before you do anything else. If it's hairless with its eyes closed, it's a nestling. It belongs high up in an oak tree and probably got blown out by the wind. If it has fur and a bushy tail but still looks completely lost, it's a juvenile that might have just wandered too far from mom. This one was entirely pink and blind. It felt like holding a cold, naked plum.

You also have to look for the gross stuff. I did a quick visual sweep and looked for fly eggs. These look like tiny grains of beige rice stuck to the fur or the skin. If you see those, the clock is ticking incredibly fast. Those eggs hatch into maggots in hours, and my nursing brain knows exactly what that means for a compromised immune system. Thankfully, my little patio alien was clean, just freezing cold.

The great reunion operation

The rehabber on the phone told me that mothers are far better at ICU care than humans are. The ultimate goal is to give the baby back. But a mother won't touch a baby that feels cold. She'll just assume it's dead and move on with her day. So I had to warm it up before I could put it back outside.

I filled a zip-top bag with hot tap water. Not boiling, just warm enough that you'd put it on your own stomach for cramps. I needed to wrap the bag in something so it wouldn't burn the fragile skin. The rehabber was very specific about this. You absolutely can't use terry cloth towels. The tiny claws get permanently stuck in the little cotton loops, and they'll rip their own nails out trying to get free.

I ended up grabbing our Organic Cotton Baby Blanket with Squirrel Print from the nursery. Yes, the irony of wrapping a real distressed woodland creature in a blanket covered in cartoon squirrels isn't lost on me. I normally use this thing for my toddler's stroller walks because the double-layered fabric blocks the wind well, but the smooth weave made it the perfect triage stretcher. It's soft, it breathes, and most importantly, it lacks those dangerous terry cloth loops.

I put the warm bag and the blanket in a shallow cardboard box and set it at the base of the nearest tree. Then I stood in my kitchen, cracked the window, and played a distressed baby rodent audio track from YouTube on my phone, hoping the mother would hear it. I stood there for two hours playing strange squeaking noises into my backyard while my neighbors probably questioned my sanity.

When the mother ghosts you

By late afternoon, it was obvious the mother wasn't coming back. The temperature was dropping, and the baby was still huddled in its box. I had to bring it inside. This is the part where people usually make catastrophic mistakes.

Your instinct is to feed it. You want to warm up some cow's milk and put it in a pet bottle. If you do this, you'll almost certainly kill the animal. Cow's milk is notoriously fatal to wild mammals, and their tiny digestive systems simply shut down.

More importantly, if an animal is dehydrated, its organs can't even process food anyway. You have to check for dehydration first. I gently pinched the translucent skin on the baby's belly. If it snaps back instantly, they're hydrated. If it stays tented for a second or two, they're critically dry. Mine was like crumpled tissue paper.

The rehabber told me to mix a cup of warm water with a pinch of salt and a pinch of real sugar to make a makeshift pedialyte. But you can't use an eyedropper to give it to them. Eyedroppers dispense fluid too quickly. If they swallow too fast, the fluid goes straight into their lungs, causing aspiration pneumonia. You'll hear a faint clicking sound when they breathe, which is basically the sound of the lungs drowning.

I had to dig through my bathroom cabinet to find an old 1cc pediatric O-ring syringe from my toddler's infant Tylenol days. I gave the baby drops of the sugar water, slowly, painfully slowly, over the course of an hour.

Managing the chaos of your actual child

While I was running a makeshift veterinary clinic on my kitchen island, my toddler was losing his absolute mind. He wanted to touch the box. He wanted to eat the sugar water. He was entirely jealous of the attention this hairless patio plum was getting.

He was pacing the living room in his Organic Cotton Baby Bodysuit, his face red and his hands aggressively grabbing at my knees. I love those sleeveless onesies because they survive the constant washing required in our house, but right then, I just needed him to be quiet. His teething was acting up, which is why he was so irritable in the first place.

I tossed him our Squirrel Teether Silicone Baby Gum Soother. It's just a piece of mint green silicone shaped like a rodent with an acorn. It's fine. It does the job when his gums are inflamed and I need five minutes of peace. He sat on the rug aggressively gnawing on the silicone acorn while I wiped a tiny drop of pedialyte off a real animal's chin.

Why I'm not a wildlife rehabber

I kept the baby in a dark, quiet bathroom overnight, far away from the toddler and the noise of our house. Wild animals experience big physiological stress just from hearing human voices or making eye contact. They don't want to be pet. They don't want you to sing to them. They just want to survive.

The next morning, the rehabber finally had an opening and drove over to pick up the box. I handed over my smooth cotton blanket and the tiny pink alien inside it. I felt a massive wave of relief. Nursing humans is exhausting enough. Nursing a wild animal that requires exact fluid percentages and zero eye contact is a level of stress I never want to volunteer for again.

If you find one in your yard, don't try to be a hero. Keep it warm, keep it quiet, don't feed it milk, and aggressively call every wildlife center in a fifty-mile radius until someone answers.

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The messy questions nobody answers

Can I just give it some regular milk if it's crying?
Listen, absolutely not. Cow's milk will destroy their digestive tract. They can't process the lactose or the fat content the same way humans or calves do. If you give them milk from your fridge, they'll likely bloat and die. Stick to warm water with a tiny pinch of salt and sugar just to keep them hydrated until you can hand them off to someone who has the specialized wild milk replacers.

Will the mom reject it because I touched it with my hands?
This is a massive myth my own mother used to tell me. Birds and mammals don't care if you touched their baby. They care if the baby is freezing cold. If you warm the baby up and put it back near the nest, the mom will usually carry it back by the scruff of its neck. She just won't retrieve a cold baby because she thinks it's already gone.

What if my toddler touched the animal before I caught them?
I've had this panic attack before. Wash their hands immediately with heavy soap and warm water. Watch for any scratches or bites. If there's a break in the skin, you've to call your doctor immediately because of the rabies risk. It's rare, but you don't mess around with zoonotic diseases. Just keep the kids totally separated from the box.

How do I know if it's actually an orphan and not just waiting for mom?
Mothers don't usually leave bald, pink babies on the concrete on purpose. If it's hairless and on the ground, it fell out of the nest. If it has fur and its eyes are open, it might just be exploring. Give the mom a few hours of daylight to come grab it. If it's getting dark and mom hasn't shown up, it's an orphan. Mother squirrels sleep at night, they don't do rescue missions in the dark.

Why is my local rehabber not calling me back?
Because it's spring and they're drowning in shoeboxes full of baby raccoons, opossums, and birds. They're usually underfunded volunteers operating out of a garage. Just keep leaving voicemails, keep the animal in a dark, warm closet away from your pets, and be patient. They'll call you back when they've finished tube-feeding the fifty other animals they took in that morning.