The Truth About Knitting Baby Dresses (And Why I Still Do It)

Sarah
2026-03-25T08:49:34+01:00

It was 2019, Maya was exactly three weeks and two days old, and I was sitting on the floor of our extremely messy living room at 2 AM wearing sweatpants that smelled vaguely of sour milk. I had my lukewarm decaf coffee in one hand and my phone in the other, furiously scrolling Pinterest. I was aggressively searching the phrase baby kleider stricken because a very chic Swiss mom I followed on Instagram used it, and apparently, the German and Swiss knitting patterns are a million times cuter and more minimalist than the frilly, over-the-top lace explosions you usually find on American craft blogs. I had this vision, this completely unhinged postpartum hallucination, that I was going to be the kind of mother who clothed her child in bespoke, hand-crafted knitwear.

So, naturally, the next day I went to a big box craft store, bought the cheapest, neon-pinkest acrylic yarn I could find, and spent three weeks knitting what eventually looked like a fluorescent sausage casing. Dave, my husband, walked in wearing his faded Mets t-shirt, looked at the stiff, plastic-feeling tube of yarn I was holding up, and just said, "Are you... going to make her wear that?"

I did. For about ten minutes. She screamed the entire time, her little neck got all red and splotchy, and I ended up crying into my coffee while cutting it off her with kitchen shears because I had made the neck hole too small. It was a disaster. But honestly, it taught me literally everything I needed to know about the whole baby knits—or "baby k" as my completely exhausted, typo-prone brain labeled the Pinterest board—obsession.

If you're thinking about knitting baby dresses, whether for your own kid or as a shower gift, you've to throw out half of what you see on Instagram because it's not actually meant for human infants who spit up, blow out their diapers, and possess skin that's ridiculously fragile. Anyway, the point is, here's what actually matters when you're sitting down with two pointy sticks trying to make clothes for a tiny, angry potato.

Please don't put plastic on your child

Here's a fun fact I learned the hard way after the neon pink sausage casing incident. When we took Maya in for her one-month checkup, our doctor Dr. Aris took one look at the lingering red irritation on her neck and gently suggested I stop putting her in synthetic craft yarn. He said something about how a baby's epidermis is, like, 20 or 30 percent thinner than an adult's? I can't remember the exact science because I was operating on three hours of sleep, but he essentially explained that their skin absorbs chemicals and heat way faster than ours does, which means putting them in non-breathable polyester or acrylic is basically like wrapping them in Saran Wrap.

Babies can't keep stable their own body temperature very well, which is terrifying because overheating is a major risk factor for stuff you really don't want to think about at 3 AM. They need natural fibers. Period.

After the doctor visit, I completely abandoned my knitting for a month and just bought her this Organic Cotton Baby Bodysuit from Kianao. I remember opening the package and just rubbing the fabric against my face because it was so ridiculously soft. It's made of 95% GOTS-certified organic cotton, and seeing how happy and rash-free Maya was in that simple, sleeveless onesie totally rewired my brain. I realized that if I was going to knit any more baby kleider, the yarn had to feel EXACTLY like that bodysuit—breathable, natural, and completely free of whatever toxic dyes they use to make acrylic yarn look like a highlighter pen.

Now, I only knit with 100% superwash Merino wool or high-quality organic cotton. Merino is magic because it supposedly controls their temperature and is naturally antibacterial, which is great because babies are gross. Just don't buy the blended yarns that are half cotton and half "polyacrylic" just to save a few bucks, because it defeats the whole purpose of making a breathable garment.

The terrifying holes of doom

Okay, we need to talk about lace patterns. You know the ones. The gorgeous, vintage-looking knitted dresses with the delicate little eyelet holes and the scalloped edges. They look incredible in photos.

Don't knit them.

When Leo was a baby, a well-meaning great-aunt sent us a beautiful lacy blanket, and one day I noticed he was screaming bloody murder in his crib. His tiny, microscopic pinky toe had gotten woven into one of the lace holes, and as he kicked, the yarn had twisted around his toe like a tourniquet. It was completely terrifying. The same thing applies to lacy knitted dresses. Tiny fingers and toes will absolutely find those holes, and they'll get stuck, and you'll lose ten years of your life to pure panic.

If you're going to knit a dress, stick to tight, dense stitches. Garter stitch or plain old stocking stitch is your best friend here. Oh, and by the way, I completely refuse to knit gauge swatches before I start a project—I just use the recommended needles, knit the thing, and if it turns out huge, I just throw it in the closet until the baby grows into it.

Also, drawstrings around the neck? Absolute death trap. Don't put strings on baby clothes. If your pattern calls for buttons, you've to buy oversized ones made from natural wood or coconut shells—not cheap plastic that splinters—and you've to sew them on with thread so durable that a grown man couldn't rip it off, because otherwise you'll spend your nights staring at the baby monitor convinced your kid is choking on a button.

Surviving the endless knitting hours

Knitting takes forever. I don't care how small the dress is, it feels like an eternity when you've a baby who requires constant attention. The only way I ever actually finished Maya's second knitted dress (a lovely, safe, tightly-knit Merino tunic in a mustard yellow that only made her look slightly jaundiced) was by establishing a very specific survival routine.

I'd lay her down on her back under her Wooden Rainbow Play Gym. I'm violently allergic to those giant plastic monstrosities that play electronic carnival music and flash strobe lights in your living room. This wooden one is just quiet, natural wood with these muted, earthy-toned animal toys dangling down. I'd sit on the floor next to her, drinking my coffee, and aggressively knit while she happily swatted at the little wooden elephant. It gave me solid 20-minute chunks of peace, which in baby time is basically a spa weekend.

Of course, this only worked until she started teething. When the teeth came, the play gym peace was shattered by the constant, furious gnawing on her own fists. I got her the Panda Teether Silicone Baby Bamboo Chew Toy, and look, it's totally fine. It's cute, the silicone is food-grade and safe, and you can throw it in the fridge which does help numb their poor little swollen gums. She chewed on it a bit, but honestly? Half the time she just threw the panda across the room and tried to army-crawl over to chew on my bamboo knitting needles instead. Because babies make zero sense.

If you're exhausted just reading this and want to skip the DIY stress entirely, you can always just browse some incredibly soft, already-made organic baby clothes that won't make you pull your hair out.

Size up or cry later

Here's the most depressing thing about knitting baby clothes: you'll spend 40 hours making a stunning little dress for a newborn, and they'll wear it exactly twice before they undergo a sudden, violent growth spurt and can no longer fit their fat little arms through the armholes.

Never knit newborn sizes. It's a trap. Always knit for the 6-12 month range (size 74/80 if you're looking at European patterns). The beauty of a knitted dress is that when they're tiny, it fits like a long, cozy gown. As they grow, it becomes a regular dress. By the time they're crawling, it's a cute little tunic that you can just throw over some leggings. You get months of wear out of it instead of weeks.

And you've to make sure the yarn is machine washable. I can't stress this enough. If you knit a baby dress out of hand-wash-only wool, you're setting yourself up for heartbreak. Babies are going to forcefully expel bodily fluids onto whatever you make. Dave once took a beautiful hand-knit cardigan I made for Leo and threw it in a hot wash with his gym clothes. It came out looking like a felted coaster. Use superwash wool or high-quality cotton that can survive a 30-degree cycle, or you'll eventually find yourself sobbing over the washing machine.

Knitting for your baby is a beautiful, deeply frustrating labor of love. Just ditch the cheap acrylic, skip the dangerous lace holes, and for the love of god, knit it big enough so they can seriously wear the damn thing for more than a week.

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The messy questions you're genuinely asking

What kind of yarn won't make my baby break out in a rash?
Honestly, stick to 100% superwash Merino wool or GOTS-certified organic cotton. Your baby's skin is super thin and easily irritated by the chemicals and stiff fibers in cheap acrylics. My doctor basically told me to treat their skin like wet tissue paper. If you wouldn't want it rubbing against your own face all day, don't knit a dress out of it.

Do I really have to hand-wash knitted baby clothes?
Hell no. Who has time for that? You're already drowning in laundry and sleep deprivation. This is exactly why you must buy yarn that specifically says it's machine washable (superwash). Throw it in on a delicate, cool cycle (30°C max) and lay it flat on a towel to dry. If you hand-wash, you'll eventually resent the garment and the baby wearing it.

What size should I honestly knit?
Skip the newborn sizes completely unless you enjoy wasting hours of your life. Knit a size 74 or 80 (roughly 6-12 months). A baby dress in a larger size just looks like a cute, oversized sweater dress at first, and then perfectly transitions into a tunic top over leggings as they turn into toddlers. You get way more bang for your buck.

Are buttons on a baby dress a choking hazard?
Yes, they absolutely can be if you aren't paranoid about it. If you've to use buttons, use huge ones that they couldn't physically swallow even if they tried—like large natural wooden ones. And sew them on with an absurd amount of reinforced thread. Personally, I prefer knitting seamless top-down raglan dresses that just stretch over the head. Way less anxiety.

Why are the European patterns (baby kleider) so popular right now?
Because they're usually seamless, ridiculously practical, and they don't look like an explosion of tulle and ruffles. The whole "baby kleider stricken" aesthetic is just really clean, simple lines using high-quality natural yarns. It's much easier to dress a squirmy infant in a simple knit sack than it's to wrangle them into something with a million snaps and bows.