The Terrifying Two-Hour Rule That Changed My Entire Parenting Paradigm

Sarah
2026-05-03T14:20:12+02:00

I was literally elbow-deep in the darkest, crumb-filled recesses of our gray sectional sofa, wearing my zombie-apocalypse sweatpants that had a questionable yogurt stain on the knee, while my daughter Maya was happily rolling around on the rug. She was fourteen months old at the time and going through this incredibly weird phase where she absolutely refused to take off her fuzzy little baby bat wings from Halloween, so she just looked like this adorable, deranged little goth creature flapping around my living room.

I was running on maybe three hours of sleep and a cold cup of whatever that acidic sludge from the Keurig is that my husband Dave insists is "premium roast," and all I wanted—the only thing I wanted in the entire world—was to find the Apple TV remote so I could put on Bluey and just sit my exhausted body down for five consecutive minutes.

My hand brushed against the cold aluminum of the remote under the couch cushion. Thank god. I pulled it out.

But the back was off. THE BACK WAS GONE.

I flipped the remote over. The little shiny, coin-shaped battery was missing. I instantly looked at my little baby bat on the rug, who was aggressively smacking her lips together like she had just tasted something interesting.

Oh god.

My heart actually stopped. Like, I felt it freeze in my chest. I grabbed my phone with shaking hands and tried to furiously type "swallowed baby battery" into Google, but my thumbs were trembling so badly that autocorrect changed it to "swallowed baby batter" and suddenly my browser was serving me WikiHow articles for infant-safe pancake mix and baking tutorials while my brain was quite literally screaming.

The science experiment happening in my head

I bypassed the pancake recipes and immediately called our pediatrician, Dr. Shen. I didn't even say hello, I just yelled that Maya might have eaten a battery and he immediately shifted into this hyper-calm doctor voice that somehow makes you panic even more because you know it means things are serious.

He started explaining the mechanics of what happens when a baby swallows one of those shiny little lithium coin batteries, and it honestly sounded like some kind of sci-fi horror movie. Because apparently, if it gets stuck in their little esophagus, it's not just a choking hazard. Like, their saliva actually closes the circuit or something? I completely dropped high school chemistry so my understanding of this is terrible, but basically, the spit triggers an electric current that creates this highly corrosive chemical reaction.

He told me it can burn a hole straight through their esophagus in as little as two hours.

Two. Hours.

I was staring at the clock on the microwave, trying to do the mental math of when she was last out of my sight. Was it when I went to pee? When I was making that god-awful coffee? I had no idea.

The greeting card industry is actively trying to take us down

Can we just talk for a second about how these little batteries are in absolutely everything? I spent the first year of my kids' lives worrying about obvious things like sharp corners and electrical outlets and whether or not I was emotionally scarring my firstborn Leo by losing my temper over Legos.

But nobody tells you about the button batteries.

They put them in key fobs. They put them in meat thermometers. And worst of all, they put them in those musical greeting cards. You know the ones. Your great-aunt Susan sends a card that plays a tinny, distorted version of "Happy Birthday" when you open it, and you think it's just annoying, but it's actually a literal landmine sitting on your kitchen counter because the battery compartment is usually just held together by a flimsy piece of cardstock and a prayer. I'm convinced the greeting card industry is just trying to slowly eliminate our peace of mind. I throw them straight in the outside trash now. Just immediately. Don't pass go. Honestly, regular AA batteries kind of freak me out now too, but whatever, those usually stay in the drawer.

The weirdest medical advice I've ever gotten

Anyway, Dr. Shen was basically like, don't under any circumstances try to make her throw up or give her milk or do the Heimlich or whatever, just grab the honey bear from the pantry and squirt two teaspoons of honey in her mouth every ten minutes on the way to the emergency room, which sounds completely insane but apparently it coats the battery and slows down the tissue-burning chemical reaction.

But wait, here's the absolute mind-trip of modern parenting.

For the entire first year of a baby's life, every doctor, book, and well-meaning stranger on the internet beats it into your head: NO HONEY. Don't give them honey. They will get infant botulism and die. It's forbidden.

And then suddenly, the day they turn one, honey becomes this magical medical elixir that you're supposed to force-feed them during a crisis. If Maya had been eleven months old, Dr. Shen said the honey protocol was a no-go because of the botulism risk. But because she was fourteen months old, I was standing in my kitchen squeezing organic clover honey directly into her mouth while she looked at me like I had finally, truly lost my mind.

She was sticky. I was sticky. I was crying. I had my car keys in one hand and my phone in the other, ready to sprint to the hospital, when Dave walked through the front door from work.

He took one look at the scene—me sobbing in yogurt pants, Maya dressed as a sticky bat—and asked what the hell was happening. I held up the backless remote.

He blinked, walked over to the dog bed, lifted it up, and picked up the shiny silver battery from the hardwood floor.

I collapsed on the floor and cried for ten solid minutes.

Purging the plastic

That day changed everything about how I buy things for my kids. I went on this absolute rampage through our house. If a toy had a battery compartment that didn't require a literal screwdriver to open, it went into the donation bin. I was done.

If you're also currently feeling the urge to purge your entire house of electronic plastic junk, you can browse some genuinely safe, battery-free stuff here. Because trust me, the peace of mind is worth it.

When Maya's teething really ramped up a few weeks later—which is, like, a whole other level of anxiety because they just want to put EVERYTHING in their mouths—I refused to buy any of those vibrating electronic teethers. Instead, I got this Panda Teether from Kianao.

Honestly? It saved my sanity. I remember handing it to her during a particularly brutal afternoon where she was screaming so loud the dog was hiding in the bathroom. The panda shape is super cute, yeah, but the bamboo-textured parts are what seriously work. She would just aggressively gnaw on the textured silicone instead of trying to eat my TV remotes. It's food-grade, completely non-toxic, and I can just chuck it in the dishwasher when it gets gross. No batteries. No anxiety. Just blessed, blessed silence.

I also totally overhauled her wardrobe after the honey incident, because her clothes were completely ruined. I ended up buying a bunch of these Sleeveless Organic Cotton Bodysuits. They're fine, you know? Like, it's a bodysuit. It covers the diaper. But it's super soft and the organic cotton washes really well, which is great because Maya is basically a walking stain magnet. It doesn't stop her from trying to eat garbage off the floor, obviously, but at least she looks cute doing it.

But the biggest change was our play setup. With Leo, we had this massive plastic monstrosity of a play gym that sang these horrible electronic songs and flashed lights and required, I kid you not, six C batteries. C batteries! Who even buys those?

For Maya, we switched to the Rainbow Play Gym Set and it's so much better for my nervous system. It's just gorgeous natural wood with these sweet little hanging animal toys. No flashing lights. No tinny music. Just pure, quiet, developmental play. Maya loved batting at the little wooden rings, and I loved that I didn't have to unscrew a plastic panel every three weeks to replace dead batteries that could potentially burn a hole in her stomach.

The lingering paranoia

I still check the remotes every single night before I go to bed. Dave thinks I'm absolutely unhinged, but I don't care. I'll take a piece of packing tape and wrap it around the battery compartment of every remote in this house until the end of time.

Because the thing they don't tell you about button batteries is that the things to watch for of a baby swallowing one are so sneaky. It's not always choking or gasping. Sometimes they just get fussy. Or they drool a little more than usual. Or they refuse to eat. Which, let's be honest, describes literally every single day of toddlerhood.

If you take away anything from my chaotic near-miss, let it be this: treat those little batteries like loaded weapons. And keep the honey handy.

Before you go check every remote control in your house (which you absolutely should do right now), check out Kianao's collection of wooden and silicone baby essentials for a safer, quieter playtime.

The messy questions we all have

What honestly are the things to watch for if they swallow one of those batteries?

Okay, so from what Dr. Shen told me, this is the scariest part because it can look exactly like a random stomach bug or a cold. They might suddenly start crying for no reason, or drooling a ton, or their voice might sound kind of hoarse. Sometimes they throw up or just refuse to swallow food. If they suddenly start doing any of this and you can't find the battery to a toy, don't even wait—just go to the ER.

Can I give the honey to my newborn if this happens?

NO. God no. Don't do this. The honey thing is ONLY for babies over 12 months old because of the infant botulism risk. If your baby is under a year old, don't give them honey. Just get in the car and drive to the emergency room immediately. Don't stop to Google things, just go.

What if I think the battery is totally dead?

It literally doesn't matter. This blew my mind, but even a "dead" battery that won't turn on your remote anymore still has enough residual electric charge in it to cause severe internal burns if it gets stuck in a kid's throat. Throw them away immediately. Don't leave them on the counter "to recycle later" like Dave used to do.

Should I try to make them throw it up?

Absolutely not. My pediatrician was super clear about this. Don't stick your finger down their throat, don't give them water or milk to wash it down, and don't try to do the Heimlich unless they're actively choking and turning blue. Doing any of that can just lodge the battery in a worse position. Just honey (if they're over a year) and the hospital.

How do I know which toys are seriously safe?

My personal rule now is that if I can open the battery compartment with my bare hands, the toy goes in the trash. The only safe electronic toys are the ones where you literally have to go get a Phillips head screwdriver from the garage to change the battery. Better yet, just stick to wooden stuff or silicone teethers. It's less stressful and honestly, they're prettier anyway.